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I really like this post! Replete with kindness, caring, compassion, and joy. All possible in the context of community - both family and friends - colored elegantly with hope! A blessing if ever I heard one.

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Thank you Gary. I'm so blessed to have friends like Stacey.

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Looking forward to this book, Julie!

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Hi Holly! It's so great to get your message. Thank you so much. I hope you and your family are healthy and happy. Keep in touch.

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Having friends like these is a pure bliss <3. These are the moments when you realize you are not alone<3. Someone's watching over you for good<3.

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Yes. What a blessing it was for our family. I'm beyond grateful for my friends who showed up and loved us through this difficult challenge. Thank you Khushi for reading and commenting.

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'Joy in a basket' indeed. The kindness of friends is such a special gift. Another wonderful post.

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It was such an unexpected gift. I'm still amazed as I reflect and process all that happened last year. We are truly blessed. Thank you for reading Rebecca.

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I'm so glad to have found you here. Blessings to your book!

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Hi Mack! I'm so glad you messaged here and excited to connect on this space. yay.

Thank you so much.

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Awesome, thank you!

I could stop by some day.

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I would love that. I'll be in touch.

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Friends can be the sweetest! I am glad you have some good ones. XO Tracy

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Thank you Tracy for dropping in. :) I'm so happy I do too. A blessing. Enjoy the sunshine day. :)

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You are truly blessed to have such caring and loving friends. I am so thankful for them because they love you too..

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Thank you mom. We are too. xoxo

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♥♥♥

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Hi Olga, Thank you so much for reading and dropping in. I hope your week is off to a great start.

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I really liked this post! How wonderful to have such great friends! So happy for you and your family. Love you all so much!!!

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Thank you so much Faith. Yes friendships are a blessing and we're grateful we had friends come along side us when some did not. I understand it can be hard for some folks to show up during hard times for whatever reason— thankfully we found a community of kindness and love to lean on.

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Such Love here Julie - family, friend, community. Stories like this bring back my faith in humanity. Thank you. 🙏

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Good morning Kym, Thank you so much. We are still so grateful. I'm thinking of you. xox

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Wow! I am going to get lollipops for Kathy and Janelle!!

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Hi Claudette, let me know if Kathy and Janelle would be up for reading. I have a friend who wrote a great book that I would love to gift you 2 copies if you think that would be helpful.

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Hi Julie 👋

Sorry it took so long to reply.

I tried earlier, but got a notice that it did not go through.

Janelle would love a book! Kathy is not up for reading, but I would be!

And thank you for the lollipop 🍭 website! I have two sets on the way to my house right now!

I never know what to do.

Thanks to you, now I know something that can help!!

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Oh I'm so happy and will get those books to you as soon as I can. One for you and one for Janelle. xoxo

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Yes! Here is the link to the ones Jeff got https://a.co/d/cdwXi1M

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Thank you for sharing this. We often don't know what to do for people who have been through chemo or long hospital visits. This is such a gift to all of us from Stacey through you. Perhaps she learned from personal experience or the experience of those in her circle. Unfortunate knowledge remade as a gift. Perhaps @Twinztalk have had this experience. Beautifully written @juliebhughes!

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Thank you Linda. What you write is so true...and now we have knowledge to pay it forward. The lollipops were especially enjoyed as Jeff has a sweet tooth. Thank you for reading Linda.

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A basket of love

For the entire family

Stacey, “an old Soul”

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Brilliant Haiku Clark. Thank you

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I too received several overflowing baskets and mailings. One contained nausea drops along with coverings for a bald head. ♥️

One of the most amazing gifts I received came from my friend Jack. Everyday for duration of my treatment he posted a funny quip in the comment section of my newsletter. He and his wife harvest humor for the multitude of catalogs they receive.

A favorite quip that he shared was:

I used to be addicted to the Hokey Pokey... Then I turned myself around. 😂

Thank you for sharing Julie!

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Hi Gail!

I have this page bookmarked in your book Poise. :) What a great idea to include the jokes. They had me smiling and laughing. What a great friend.

I'm so happy to hear you were taken care of and supported.

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A bookmarked page in POISE? 😱 thank you for fulfilling an author’s dream!

Cancer surely seems to bring out lots of collateral beauty. (Have you seen that movie?)

I am glad to read that your family feels loved and supported, too!

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HA! Yes lots of bookmarked pages in Poise!! :) You're welcome.

I have not seen that movie but thank you for bringing it to my attention.

Thank you so much Gail. Thank you for sharing and publishing your story.

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You’re welcome. It truly was my pleasure. As a fellow writer, I suspect you share similar feelings of joy in thinking through and presenting your story so that it might be a light for others.

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Yes I do. :)

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