“I want to tell you something”is a brave move in itself and your awareness and vulnerability are both key to unlocking the secret of standing your ground and finding the space to respond. Perhaps “role play”is necessary until the freeze, flight or fight response is lessened. Practice, practice, practice will see you through those all too familiar moments. Think about what you as Mana Bear won’t do for the love of your children. Harness the love for yourself and become the brave advocate of your own beliefs. You are so smart. You have all the answers within. Don’t let a bully win...
I can totally feel what it's like to put out your thoughts across and when the other person can't just give you the time you want. Beautifully written♥️
It sure is and then after...my brain runs through it over and over on what I "should've" done or said. Sigh...thank you for sharing this mom. xoxo I can do better and will continue to work on what I can control. (ME)
Thank you Claudette. And I like what you said here "all she taught me". I need to remember this...we learn and grow from these difficult relationships, I suppose? I pray God gives me discernment on when to reach out or when to keep my distance.
That is so very wise and I must do this. I sometimes forget to ask God for guidance, or to pray before I enter difficult situations. Then I beat myself up that I forgot to pray, Sigh!
I always love your poems. They always give me a lift for the day and more. I keep in mind your thoughts when we have company (my oldest grandson & his girlfriend this weekend). What a joy to have them here!
Faith, what a joy to have your oldest grandson and his girlfriend this weekend. I hope you all have a feast of laughter. Thank you for commenting. xoxo
Please let me know Julia if my unsolicited advice ever invades your personal space. Never my intent and apologize if ever that happens. Feelings are everywhere. I must learn how to tread lightly.
Thank you Clark! You are a joy and no need to apologize for sharing your thoughts with kindness and encouragement. This is the space I hope we can all do that. Thank you for leading.
“I want to tell you something”is a brave move in itself and your awareness and vulnerability are both key to unlocking the secret of standing your ground and finding the space to respond. Perhaps “role play”is necessary until the freeze, flight or fight response is lessened. Practice, practice, practice will see you through those all too familiar moments. Think about what you as Mana Bear won’t do for the love of your children. Harness the love for yourself and become the brave advocate of your own beliefs. You are so smart. You have all the answers within. Don’t let a bully win...
Thank you! Thank you, Clark. I truly appreciate your support and wisdom here. Your ideas are very helpful and encouraging.
I can totally feel what it's like to put out your thoughts across and when the other person can't just give you the time you want. Beautifully written♥️
Thank you Khushikatyal. I appreciate what you shared here.
We learn as we grow
Thank you Claudette for being here. xox
I understand this all too well. In the moment it’s hard to respond the way you want to when emotions run high. ❤️
It sure is and then after...my brain runs through it over and over on what I "should've" done or said. Sigh...thank you for sharing this mom. xoxo I can do better and will continue to work on what I can control. (ME)
Wow
Been there many times
"That" person is gone from my life now. I actually miss her! I hold on to all she taught me.
Thank you Claudette. And I like what you said here "all she taught me". I need to remember this...we learn and grow from these difficult relationships, I suppose? I pray God gives me discernment on when to reach out or when to keep my distance.
Haha I prayed every time this person called me, to have the best way to respond !
That is so very wise and I must do this. I sometimes forget to ask God for guidance, or to pray before I enter difficult situations. Then I beat myself up that I forgot to pray, Sigh!
I always love your poems. They always give me a lift for the day and more. I keep in mind your thoughts when we have company (my oldest grandson & his girlfriend this weekend). What a joy to have them here!
Faith, what a joy to have your oldest grandson and his girlfriend this weekend. I hope you all have a feast of laughter. Thank you for commenting. xoxo
Please let me know Julia if my unsolicited advice ever invades your personal space. Never my intent and apologize if ever that happens. Feelings are everywhere. I must learn how to tread lightly.
Thank you Clark! You are a joy and no need to apologize for sharing your thoughts with kindness and encouragement. This is the space I hope we can all do that. Thank you for leading.
When I freeze I feel
Like a deer caught in headlights
I need a “Plan B”.....
Yes! Clark, thank you for this haiku—pairs well.
Same same, girlfriend! Thank you for saying this out loud. 💓
Good morning Aransas, You too? Thank you for writing this— I'm not the only one.
We are not alone! (I did it yesterday- while changing the laundry. 🤷🏻♀️)
Thank you and i had no idea how relatable this would be.
Beautifully articulated, so relatable. 👏
Thank you Andrea. I'm happy to see your message here and connect. I hope your week is off to a great start.